
Hello friends and family...
I have not updated my profile in 10 months. There has been so much going on with Ellie and the adoption. For confidenitality... I didn't want to post any new photos of her on-line. Although my blog says it is private and for friends and family only... I don't want to take any chances because I've been through so much this year.
There was a meeting for Kaylynn in mid-May. I was told she would have weekend visits with her bio-dad for a couple months and, then, weekday visits (Monday-Friday) for a couple months as she slowly transitioned to that home. She left at 2:30 in the afternoon the following Friday for a weekend visit and never came back. It was so sad. It was hard on our whole family... especially Ellie and me. Ellie fell behind in her speech and I became very distrustful of "the system".
We have run into multiple obstacles during Ellie's adoption process. We thought it would be complete by October 2009... now, it is looking like March or April 2010. Can't really discuss the details, but it is turning around and looks better now.
My sweetie, Austin, turned 7 .... I know, SEVEN!!!! at the end of November. There were only 3 kids in his class accepted into the gifted program at his school and he was one of them. He is in the 1st grade and reads at about a 4th grade level. He is so smart and clever and witty and funny. But... he is a boy, so farts and poop and spelling a-s-s are just hysterical to him.
Even though he is a boy, I think he is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen.
I cannot wait to post new photos of Ellie on my blog and on Facebook. As soon as it is official, I will blog regularly and update photos often. She is such a big part of my life and I didn't feel like I could do a good job of blogging and expressing my feelings when I wasn't allowed because of confidentiality. Once the adoption is final, I am excited about documenting my family's life experiences.
Our Disney Cruise was amazing and it pained me not to be able to post all of the photos... especially the photos of Ellie dressed like Snow White actually meeting Snow White. Those photos were priceless.
Although 2009 was an emotional rollercoaster, I am sure that 2010 will be the best year yet.